It says something about a person
It has been my observation that you can tell much more about people when they lose an election than when they win.
When you win it is easy to be involved in the community. Showing up at public events is a source of pride. You won. "Look at me. I’m cool. The others just could not compare to me."
When a candidate loses they often take it very personally. Some tend to hide. The good people do a complete self and organizational evaluation. From that they find some other way to contribute to the community. Most of the time there are some harsh feelings. Sometimes they go away with time. Sometimes the grudge lasts a life time.
I’m certainly not going to ever argue that a candidate or former candidate should ever give up the fight for what they think is right. However, at some point the election is over and you just need to move on.
My most recent reminder of this comes from former Hesperia School Board Trustee Nellie Gogley.
After she lost her re-election bid (came in last)… Read More